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20 September 2011


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I guess I am what is called a lurker. I enjoy your blog but often don't comment. I really enjoy your post today as, like you, I had a lumpectomy done almost 2 yrs ago, More recently, I had a cancer recurrence in the lymph node near my right collarbone and am undergoing chemotherapy. Having said this, your attitude towards cancer is very much like mine.... a positive one is so essential to deal with anger and fear. You are so right in being proactive about your health. I will think of you as I continue to read your blog.
Take care from a reader in Canada :)

Hello Eunice: I cherish all my readers equally, whether they comment or not (I'm a lurker on a good many blogs myself . . ) But I am always pleased to hear from someone who is walking the same or a similar pathway, not least because we have shared experiences and that, in itself, can take away the sense of aloneness that the cancer journey can sometimes engender. I was so sorry to hear that those pesky cancer cells had had another go at you but, if it helps, the surgeon and the breast care nurse who were with me when I received my diagnosis and who witnessed my response told me that they were in no doubt as to the enormous
contribution that a positive attitude can make to recovery. So I will think of you as you go forward with this stage of your treatment and I am sure that other readers will think of you too. Please keep in touch (on blog or off) and let me know how things go for you.

A very helpful post, D, which gets to the heart of what stands in the way of all life-threatening illnesses. That kind of clear-sightedness about anger and fear stands a person in good stead when dealing with other life's problems, I think.

I'm not surprised about the lack of communication about back-log problems at the hospital. Writing a letter doesn't seem to occur to many people any more in this digital age.

You touch a deep chord in so many people who cheer you on and cheer others through you. Liike Eunice I read anf digest but do not commnent too much because most often I think you say it all. wxx

Facing uncertainty is very frustrating... Your positive attitude will definitely make the treatment go smoothly. Thank you for sharing what you've learned.
"I can see all clearly now" is a great song!

I hope you sense the big hug I'm sending your way. One year 'free' is a big milestone. It bothers me that the person you spoke with appeared to take a 'follow-up' so lightly. I just passed my two-year milestone, and the oncologist told me I could relax 'a little'. Of course he also wrote me a prescription to do something for myself in celebration. I hope you did, in spite of the stress of having to wait for the follow-up.

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